So, there’s a handsome guy sitting a few seats away from me on the subway. He’s got a polished, suited up Javier Bardem look about him. At the station, the man steps off the train, follows me up the escalator and tells me in gorgeously accented English, “your hair is beautiful.” He says he’s from [...]
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Will Date for Money
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged date for money, gold digger, marry a rich man, millionaire matchmaker, how to find a man with money, sugardaddy on September 6, 2010 | 4 Comments »
Can People Really Change?
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged bad boys, can people change, change, slacker boyfriend, change your life, can I change him on August 30, 2010 | 8 Comments »
In June, I wrote a blog post about my friend Kim who resolved to change her wanton ways in order to better attract the loving, committed relationship she craves. Kim has spent most of her thirty-plus years supplementing her life as a brilliant, professionally successful dynamo with moments being a horny, somewhat debauched wild child. [...]
Is She Single Because She’s Black?
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged John Mayer, single black women, am I single because I'm black, black women can't find men, black women and marriage, successful black women marriage, educated black women marriage, OKCupid black women, online dating black women, interracial dating, dating black women, black women relationships on August 23, 2010 | 7 Comments »
This week, I was a guest on a fantastic NPR segment about race and dating. A woman had written into a local paper’s advice column worrying she would always remain single because she’s black. A few years ago, if someone would’ve suggested race had anything to do with a woman’s marital status, I would’ve said [...]
Eat. Pray. Puke.
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged afraid of love, drink play fuck, Eat Pray Love, Elizabeth Gilbert, Julia Roberts, Julie Roberts movie, sweetness of doing nothing on August 16, 2010 | 6 Comments »
Generally speaking, I like watching chick flicks about as much as I like getting hives. I can’t stand the Disney-ified perspective on relationships or cheesy, girl power soundtracks. I imagined Eat, Pray, Love would be particularly loathsome, mostly because I have trouble feeling much empathy for a perfect, blonde, fabulously successful writer who has the [...]

