A good friend in college once admitted to feeling miffed when we were together in public because men sometimes checked me out instead of her. Apparently, she was attempting to build trust by revealing these monstrous feelings and I was supposed to be touched. I won’t pretend to have been a saint at the time, [...]
Posts Tagged ‘why am I single’
I Know What Boys Like
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged afraid of love, attention whore, bad boys, being single, broken heart, competition among women, competition between women, finding love, He's Just Not That Into You, male attention, need male attention, why am I single, why didn't he call, why won't he commit on February 21, 2011 | 11 Comments »
What’s So Wrong With Not Wanting to Be Alone?
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged afraid of commitment, afraid of love, afraid to be alone, afraid to end up alone, broken heart, codependent, codependent relationships, finding love, marry me, men withdraw, single women, singles, why am I single on January 31, 2011 | 15 Comments »
I have a friend, we’ll call him Buster, who’s in a marriage most people might refer to as “shitty.” He’s got the bitter wife, the resentful kid, the budding alcohol problem, whole nine yards. Buster caters to his woman’s every wacky whim and exhausts himself trying to put himself in her dainty shoes to empathize [...]
The Way We Weren’t
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged broken heart, dating, dream interpretation, dreaming about an ex, Facebook, finding an ex on Facebook, getting over a breakup, He's Just Not That Into You, high school crush, what do dreams mean, why am I single on May 16, 2010 | 3 Comments »
The other night, I had a wonderfully romantic dream about my high school crush. Though I haven’t thought of the boy in years, he’s always been the one infatuation I’ve regretted not having a chance to explore. Back then, he was popular, studly, too cute for my ugly duckling high school self. For two long, [...]
A Night with American Psycho
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged American Psycho, Christian Bale, crazy date, crazy ex, dating a psycho, don't date him, psycho, why am I single, why didn't he call on February 28, 2010 | 4 Comments »
The other night, I saw Nicolas with a new girl. He seems to go through them like Kleenex. When I see him around, I get a raunchy desire to press up against him. But I also feel relief that I probably, quite literally, dodged a bullet. Our story went down like this: I meet him [...]

